It's SMgirl here. I've been trying and trying to answer all of your questions but for some reason I am unable to post comments.
So for a while I will be unable to answer any of your questions. Please read through my Q and A's and read through the comments that have been made. There's a lot and it should answer all of your questions.
After reading everything on my blog and you still need help you may email me but please keep your questions short. No more than 2 per email and only send one email until I reply it back.